It’s been a very long time since I have written something about my separation anxiety – which was in the end the reason I started my previous blog after all. The 1st update was in july 2017. How am I now?
The downside of living together
In about two weeks I will be living in Amsterdam for one year. One beautiful year, where I moved in with my boyfriend and started working at Travix. And even though I love my boyfriend, I have to say living together is harder than I thought…
The key to living together
Of course I am far from a relationship expert, but here are some tips I can give from my personal experience when you just started living together
The price of admission
“There is no settling down without some settling for. There is no long-term relationship not just putting up with your partner’s flaws, but accepting them and then pretending they aren’t there. We like to call it in my house “paying the price of admission”
I have had my fair share of relationships so far. At the age of 27 I had about 12 of them. Some lasted only 2 weeks, others lasted 2 years. Sometimes I ended them, sometimes the other party did. You might find that number quite a lot by the way – or maybe not at all. I have been judged about it by some exes, but now I don’t care anymore.